RELATIONSHIPS
It is easy to find yourself overwhelmed and unable to see a way to resolve some issues, whilst yearning for clarity and calm but descending into confusion and chaos. With just one session you will find yourself feeling a positive difference as you learn new ways to deal with your problem and make the changes you are looking for.
Maybe you are feeling stuck and unable to make a decision, if so, uncertainty and doubt will keep you in one place. By taking advantage of a range of change-tools you will be guided forward. Feeling back in control with new strategies and self-knowledge and looking forward to the next step!
COUPLES
When a great relationship begins to show signs of fraying around the edges it is time to re-evaluate, look at your partner and listen to them in a new way but of course also to look and listen to yourself too!
We often become habit bound and create patterns together that go round in circles with both parties feeling unheard, unfulfilled and frankly confused.
You probably already think you know what your partner will say to most remarks you make or questions you ask. It is all part of the habitual cycle. We stop truly listening and instead believe we know what the other thinks and wants.
The physical side of the relationship is often one of the first tell-tale signs that things are on the decline. Of course it is unlikely that many of us retain the first throws of passion that took our breath away upon meeting but that doesn’t mean we should expect to stop fancying each other and acting on that feeling!
You may think that you have tried everything but with a Life Coach to reflect the patterns and habits that have evolved in the relationship, giving guidance and strategies as to how to make a big difference, you might be astounded how easy it is to get back on track.
Check out the testimonials link and read experiences of other people in a similar situation and how their lives have been transformed just by taking that first step!
SINGLES
Adult and single is increasingly the norm. Suddenly finding yourself back in the dating arena can be a scary prospect, with new rules and methods and no instruction books to guide you. The internet has become a popular way to meet potential partners, lovers and friends and can be highly successful if approached mindfully.
Often the initial steps can be daunting, with new singles finding themselves lacking the confidence and self belief that allows it to be fun and enjoyable. Beating ourselves up over imperfections, age, past failed relationships etc does not make it any easier!
A fresh image can help a little, meeting new friends and finding places to go that are a pleasure. There are lots of ways to make being single great fun but if we are taking the old ‘us’ into the new arena, with our scars and wounds from previous relationships, lack of confidence and more… what are we going to achieve? In all likelihood not what we want!
When you watch someone out and about, who is free and happy, enjoying their life and all they are, it is a delight. Watch them laugh and smile without feeling self conscious, having plenty to say and always, it seems doing something interesting. Have you ever wondered what it is about them that has made all of this possible?
Over the years we amass a significant number of beliefs about ourselves and our lives. What is possible, what is probable and then inadvertently we set out to prove ourselves right! The people who are out there enjoying life and all it has to offer have not necessarily had an easy life but they have learned the key to moving forward.
When we walk into a room feeling negative about ourselves, not looking forward to the experience to come and perhaps even feeling inadequate – what sort of person are we likely to attract? How much fun are we likely to have? Supposing all of these negative and long held beliefs were transformed into positive and productive ones? Just for a moment imagine that you felt great about yourself, loved your life and enjoyed all you do… how would you look? How would you behave differently? What sort of people would you engage with?
Life is too short to be wishing and hoping… that alone will not make the difference. Experience change for yourself and you will be amazed at the immediate effect it has on your life and outlook. I am on hand to work with my clients as they need. Some come once or twice and are off like the wind to explore their new world, others are appreciative of a guiding hand along the way. Whatever works for you in discovering your full potential and all the other benefits along the way.
